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Category: Blog
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Stephanie’s Poll: Conflict In Relationships
Hi SL Fabz,Thanks for all your wonderful comments on previous posts. Your responses go a long way to help a lot of people with different questions and issues, and of course, for those funny ones, you certainly make my day!
Today, we’re going to be discussing a very important topic on relationships with the hope of finding solutions to avoiding or dealing with them. (more…)
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Why You Should Follow Your Passion
I’m a big proponent of doing what you’re passionate about.
Often times, people get excited and passsionate about an idea, but they quickly lose steam and soon lose their drive to see their idea through. I know that things might be tough, and ideas sometimes take a long time to take shape, but I’ve found that there are several benefits of finding your passion and following it up.
Here are some: (more…)
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The Lion, The Goat & The Yam
This riddle tried my patience as a child. I never seemed to find the answer. (more…)
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Love Or Money?
Yesterday, I stumbled upon an argument between an elderly woman and a young lady in her twenties. For the sake of this post, lets call the elderly woman Madam, and the young lady Miss.
Simply put, the topic was this: What is more important in a relationship? Love or Money.
While Madam argued that Love was the most important ingredient needed for a relationship to survive the test of time, Miss felt that Money which provided comfort and luxury was more important than Love for a long lasting relationship. They both raised valid points that makes it difficult to say any of them is wrong.
So I decided to bring the topic to you my SL Fabz. What is more important for a relationship to stand the test of time? Is it Love or Money?
Let’s discuss!
xoxo
SL
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I’m Grateful For…
I am grateful for the blessing of life.I am grateful for my husband – my rock, my friend, my pillar. (more…)
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Do You Believe In Nigeria?
I read without surprise a recent news report that says Nigerians are among the ‘Top Eight Races that Excel in the United States of America’.A Yale professor Amy Chua and her husband Jed Rubenfeld in a recent book pointed out that some groups in America are inherently more likely to succeed than others pointing at the ease with which Nigerians earn doctoral degrees. (more…)
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Talk To Steph: Help, My Mother-In-Law Is Ruining My Marriage!
This mail was sent in by a StephanieDaily reader. Let’s give some good advice to help her out of this difficult situation.
Before I got married, I have heard stories of married women having issues and fights with their mother-in-laws but I always thought mine would be different. While my husband and I were dating, she was always very nice to me and didn’t give me any reason to think we would have any issues.
But things changed a few months after my marriage. As soon as she noticed I was pregnant, she started imposing things on me. She said I must go to her church, eat the kind of food she wants me to eat, dress in a certain way and more. To make things worse, she lives just a stone throw from our house and spent many nights in my house under the pretence that she was taking care of me (as if I was sick) or that her house was too boring.
When I put to bed, she finally moved in to our house and hasn’t moved out ever since (it’s almost two years now). Before you start to think I’m being ungrateful about her concern, let me tell you a few annoying things she does. She eavesdrops on conversations I have with my husband (I’ve caught her more than a few times); she tells me often that I can’t cook in front of my husband (he doesn’t have a problem with my cooking) and even removed a plate of food I once gave to him saying it was bad for his health. When I was searching for a school for my son, she gave my husband multiple reasons why he shouldn’t choose any of the schools I liked until we eventually enrolled him in a school of her choice.
My husband dotes on her and tells me to be patient because his Dad is late, but her presence in my home is getting more and more annoying. I am not free to do things my way anymore, I am losing my self esteem and a big rift has been formed between me and my husband because of her presence. But she sees nothing wrong with this and is not prepared to leave my home.
I need your advice. What can I do?
If you have any burning issue you’d like to share with our readers to get some good advice, send an email to info@stephaniedaily.com with the subject ‘Talk To Steph’. Your identity would be protected.
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Stephanie’s Tips: 7 Ways to Spice up Your Work Wardrobe
Wearing the same thing to work day in and day out can get boring. Before you resign yourself to an office-wear rut, let me help inject some style and energy into your at-work wardrobe.
Just bring your personal style with you and put your own spin on these tips! With some well-placed accessories, prints, and some flashes of colour, here are 7 ways to spice you your work wardrobe.
1. Remember, It’s All about The Accessories
One of the sure-fire ways to spice up your work wardrobe is with your favourite accessories, and the great thing is, they can be practical too! Accessories like wristwatches and statement necklaces can go a long way in transforming your look. And the wonderful thing is that you don’t really have to be too dressy when you’ve got a gorgeous piece of jewelry dangling from your neck.
2. Wrap It up with a Scarf!
Scarfs are a smart way to bring attention to your face and neck, and they look great with everything! What I love about this wonderful piece of fabric is that it comes in so many shapes and sizes and patterns, and you can do so many things with it. Tie it up in your hair, use it as a headband, or even use a thin one as a belt! Scarves are a great way to spice up your work wardrobe, and they’re cheap!
3. Pretty up Those Nails
Long manicured nails, cute as they are, may not be the most practical thing for typing away at your keyboard. But natural polished nails, perhaps with a fun pattern, or even a basic colour to match your makeup or outfit for the day is a great way to spice up your work wardrobe! Plus looking down at your pretty nails will always bring a smile to your face!
4. Shoes, Shoes, Shoes!
On days when it feels like you have nothing in your closet, nothing is quite as chic and professional as a suit with stellar shoes. These don’t always have to be heels; they can be knee high boots, flats or even strappy sandals. Shoes are an excellent way to spice up your work wardrobe, and it’s a perfect way to justify buying some of those pretty shoes you see at the store!
5. Tweak your Collared Shirt
No doubt the classic white shirt is a staple— but bringing some texture and print to the classic is a smart fashion move.
6. Blazers Don’t Have to be Boring
Don’t dress like an oldschool banker! Swap that black blazer for a different colour (blues and neutrals work just as well), or with interesting details. Opt for something in a brighter hue, or even a printed piece to really kick your office look up a few notches. Blazers are a wardrobe staple, not just for the workplace but for your personal style as well! The best thing about blazers is they are as professional as they come, but still structured and stylish, you’ll have your pick!
7. Get Colourful
Say goodbye to boring outfits by adding a splash of color to anything you wear. Even an all-black ensemble gets a wake-up call with a bold patterned scarf, get-noticed bag or cute cardigan in a hue that stands out.
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Why Complicate Life?
Some things in life don’t have to be that difficult, really. It’s not always easy to make these decisions, I know, but a positive attitude always goes a long way.
Have a great day SL Fabz!
xoxo
SL