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Ann wrote:

I met a guy through a friend, no he actually saw my pics on a friend’s dp and he liked me, he collected my pin and we started chatting cos he stays far away in Abuja while I stay in Lagos. We chatted for a month on bbm and I told him we need to see cos we’ve dated for a month via phone…all this while on phone we talked about the future together and all and he seems so eager and ready. He finally came to Lagos so that we can meet after like a month and 2 weeks, he has since been around its been fun all the way and we actually clicked and bonded but recently after like a month of his stay I sensed he slowed down and when I asked why, he said our meeting is now a reality and that back then that we have not met things were different. He says nothing has changed the future together and all that we discussed when we have not met…but we need to take it slowly… I’m confused! Why the slowdown? Note: its now almost 3 months that we met on bbm. Please advice me.

SL Fabz, jump in and advice Ann

xoxo

#SL

Hello SL Fabz, hope your weekend is starting off on a relaxing, stress free note. A lot of ladies write me so I decided to put something out there for the men, and for the ladies to share with their guys/brothers/friends. Remember you can always write me at info@stephaniedaily.com and your story might just be featured on ‘Talk To Steph’

Here’s  some RELATIONSHIP ADVISE FOR MEN culled Relationship Advisers

1. BE SENSITIVE: Women love men that are sensitive by nature. This can also mean openly declaring your love and not being afraid to do so where ever you are. She will secretly revel in the fact that you are so proud of her.

2.DON’T COMPROMISE: Women are forever changing their minds on what they want. You must be a master of compromise to make a relationship with a woman work. Men should have a lot of patience and be good listeners so that you will know what to expect.

3. TRUST HER INSTINCTS: It is known that a woman’s  instinct is usually pretty accurate. Accept that women are guided by common sense more than anything else, so if they tell you to follow a certain direction, they will probably be right. 

4. GIFTS AND TIME: Women love spending time with their lovers and getting gifts too. They love a man that gives especially if he is creative with gifts.

5. FORGIVE EASILY: Be forgiving of things that are said in frustration and anger. Never use them as ammunition in an argument later either.

6. COMPLIMENT HER: Women love compliments and can never get enough of them. You should however be cautious in dishing out too many, because they can end up becoming meaningless as well. You should look for a balance here. Build up her self confidence by letting her know she looks good, has made a great decision, or been a wonderful cook .

7. TREAT HER LIKE A PRINCESS: Women are dreamers and still little girls at heart. She desires to be the center of attention and you are the knight on a white horse rescuing her. 

If you are in love with a woman and she loves you back unconditionally then you have a relationship that is truly worth fighting for. Try and learn as much about her as you can while you are building a relationship; what she likes and does not like etc. When you start understanding her better you have a lifelong loving partner that is worth more than all the money in the world.

So, there you have it. Do you have more to add to this?

xoxo

#SL