Stephanie Linus Daily

Tag: Conflicts

  • 9 Types Of Men Women Avoid

    Hi SL Fabz,

    Yesterday, we discussed the topic 8 Types Of Women Men Avoid and I was so overwhelmed by the discussion and comments that followed. Apparently, this is a hot topic.

    But did you think we were gonna talk about the women only? Nope!

    Just as women are attracted to certain types of men, there are other types of men that women go out of their way to avoid. Are you looking out for a new relationship? To avoid the pain you undergo when things go wrong, here’s a list of nine types of men you should run miles away from.

    The Non-Committed Guy
    This is the guy that tells you he doesn’t want a relationship immediately, the guy that can’t/won’t call you his girlfriend when it’s way overdue, or the guy that’s over 30 and hasn’t had at least two serious relationships (or one very serious, 1+ years relationship).
    It really doesn’t matter what his issues are, the bottom line is that this guy can’t see himself in a relationship with you. Do not try to change his mind, turn him around, or make him want it. You’re just going to waste your time.

    The Mama’s Boy
    The Mama’s Boy probably still lives with his parents in their house, allowing Mom to iron his clothes, make his bed and cook his meals. When a man delights in being waited on hand-and-foot by his mom, there’s trouble. He always asks his Mom before making major decisions in his life and its a big problem for you if his Mom doesn’t like you.

    The Underachiever
    You know the type. He sits at home playing video games all day and then goes to hang out with his guys at the club at night. If he has no hobbies, skills, or future aspirations outside of his living room, you know you’ve just encountered the attractive but exceedingly lazy underachiever. When searching for a man, you should always look for confidence, ambition and stability.

    The Control Freak
    Going out with this man is like dating your very strict father. At first, his embrace may seem warm and secure. But before long, you’ll be suffocating. It’ll start with going to the restaurants he chooses, seeing the movies he picks, hanging out with his friends and not yours. But eventually he tries to dictate everything, from what you wear to how you spend your free time. With a control freak, you have to give up more and more of your separate experiences, separate activities, separate friends. And then it goes deeper to separate thoughts and feelings until you no longer have an identity of your own.

    The Gadget Freak
    The gadget freak always likes to be called a ‘big boy’. He has the hottest phone and a decked-out luxury car. In other words, this guy has a lot of material things keeping him busy. As a grown-up kid who can’t resist the new plaything of the moment, he has a hard time keeping his attention on women. After all, who can compete with technology when it changes at lightning speed? This guy cares more about stuff than people. (Bad sign.) With this kind of outlook, women who date The Gadget Freak are often left wondering if an upgraded model will make them obsolete.

    The Over Intimate Guy
    If your guy is too eager for some intimacy, it’s never a good sign. For one, he may act as if he’s extremely into you just to get you into bed as soon as possible. He’s the kind of guy that looks deep into your eyes and tells you he never felt like this with any girl before just a few days after meeting him! This guy comes across as incredibly affectionate and might confuse you. If he’s the player type, this is all an act to get you into bed.

    The Cheap Guy
    He invites a woman to dinner and then subtly suggests she should pay the bill. He never splurges to buy her gifts and he always opts for the cheapest stuff available. He makes her feel like they’re on a tight budget from the very first date. It’s just a few weeks into the relationship and he’s already asking her for loans he would never pay back. Ladies, this is someone to run away from.

    The Cheater
    The Cheater doesn’t try to hide the fact that he’s checking out other women while in her presence; he flirts with the waitress and he even goes as far as to brag about his past girlfriends. Overall, he lacks respect for women. It’s a sad fact of life that some men are apt to cheat on their wives and girlfriends, it should become clear that most cheaters won’t change. Ladies, it’s time to let him go once and for all. Send the cheater packing and save the relationship that matters most – the relationship you have with yourself!

    The One Who Doesn’t Like Your Family
    Nobody has a perfect family, but if your guy consistently says he doesn’t want to be around your family, refuses to attend events where they are present, or is generally rude to them, this is a huge warning sign for problems in the future. He should love you for you, not your family, and he should respect you enough to treat them with kindness, regardless of how he feels.

    Do you have any more qualities to add to this list? Do women really avoid such type of men?

    Let’s discuss!

  • 8 Types Of Women Men Avoid

    Have you ever wondered if the way you act makes men cringe? Have you ever worried that your behavior might be making them run in the other direction?

    Just as men are attracted to certain type of women, there are other types of women that men go out of their way to avoid. Here are some of them:

    The Gold Digger
    Money matters a lot to her. She wants to marry a rich man in order to get his money. She demands gifts and expects a man to spend money on her all the time. She often asks lots of questions about man’s financial position. It’s a main blow to a man’s ego to ask him about it. That’s why men stay away from gold diggers.

    The Control Freak
    For this woman, her ideal relationship is less about compatibility and compromise and more about having someone do everything she says. This type of woman insists that you spend every waking moment with her, refusing to let you go out with the boys or spend any significant amount of time with anyone else.

    Mother Goose
    If your girlfriend is constantly fixing your hair and tucking in your shirt, you’re the victim of a Mother Goose. Although she may have good intentions and be great in many other ways, her motherly instincts will eventually drive you up the wall.

    The Flirt
    She goes around flirting with one guy and another. She can’t be loyal to one man. She cheats on her man over and over again. Even if she tries, she couldn’t stay faithful to any man. Most men wish to have a long-term relationship so they stay away from such type of women.

    The Wannabe
    She comes across as if she has a lot going on, yet you can’t really pinpoint what or who she really is. It’s more likely that she has an identity issue or is too wrapped up in the lives of celebrities that she’s lost herself along the way.

    The Chatterbox
    This type chatters incessantly about every topic that crosses her mind, no matter how mundane or unimportant it may be. She will drive you crazy with her never-ending monologues about the guy at work who never makes a new pot of coffee when he finishes the last one and the woman at the supermarket who wears too much make-up.

    The Comparative One
    She’s the one that compares you to either her terrible ex or her father that you will never live up to. It’ll be very hard to feel appreciated by her because whatever you do will not measure up to her standards. She can’t see you for who you are, she only sees how things can be better or how wrong they are.

    Do you have any more qualities to add to this list? Do men really avoid such type of women?

    Let’s discuss!