Tag: i wish i had another chance

  • Episode 10: Never Too Late #HeyWomanSeries

    Lola is a respected, successful banker making a name for herself in her professional and social circles. But at home in the eyes of her husband, she is nothing but a punching bag. How does she value herself and what kind of future will she choose?

    Too many women — no matter how smart, educated or powerful — tolerate abusive relationships for far too long. Outwardly, women may appear to be confident and smart, but inside, they only get their confidence and sense of value from being in a relationship. It’s a disturbing reality that has to change.  

    Our goal with this episode of the #HeyWomanSeries is to show people in abusive relationships/marriages that they can take their power back when they share their stories with the right people and when they make the right decisions.  

    If more people responded to victims’ stories of abuse with concern and compassion, instead of with criticism, more victims might speak up and find the support they need to live a life free of abuse. Breaking the silence against domestic violence is difficult but getting your life back is worth it!

    This short film was produced by Next Page Productions with support from UNFPA Nigeria.

  • Episode 9: Not This Time #HeyWomanSeries

    Ify thought she had met the man of her dreams online. After a series of chats, it was time to meet in person. But when he showed up, he was far from who she thought he was.

    In the immediate aftermath of a sexual assault, the actions carried out by a victim can be very instrumental in bringing a perpetrator to justice. While it’s natural to want to remove all signs of the attack that occurred, taking care to preserve all possible evidence will make it more likely that, if you do decide to file a report and press charges, justice can be served.

    The truth is that most victims find it difficult to show incredible courage in the face of overwhelming danger. And that is completely understandable. They might feel frightened, confused, or ashamed, and may not wish to subject themselves to the invasive nature of the reporting to the authorities or the evidence collection process.

    It is our hope that this video educates us and gives someone out there the courage to do the right thing. Let’s end this cycle of pain and shame, together.

    This short film was produced by Next Page Productions with support from UNFPA Nigeria.

  • Episode 8: I WISH I HAD ANOTHER CHANCE #HeyWomanSeries

    After repeated incidents of battering and severe domestic abuse, Alero leaves her matrimonial home. But in a shocking response, her parents urge her to return to her abusive husband. What will be the outcome of this reckless decision?

    https://youtu.be/XPScWF_laro

    Each day, the safety and well-being of women across the nation are threatened by gender-based violence and psychological abuse. Remaining in such abusive relationships puts victims at a risk of more abuse, and even death.

    While there are barriers to escaping a violent relationship, it is not impossible with the right support. The longer you stay in an abusive relationship, the greater the physical and emotional toll. The only way to break the cycle of gender-based violence is to take action. We don’t have to lose any more women to domestic violence. If you or someone you know is in a controlling or abusive relationship, please speak out or seek help.

    This short film was produced by Next Page Productions with support from UNFPA Nigeria.