Stephanie Linus Daily

Tag: Love

  • What Do Women Find Most Attractive In Men?

    It’s always so interesting to read your comments every time we have to discuss a topic on relationships. The last time we discussed something similar about what men find most attractive in women, we had an interesting debate in the comment section. I’m positive today’s topic is even gonna be hotter!

    So, tell me SL Fabz, what are the general traits that women find attractive in men?

    As usual, I asked around and these are the most common responses I got.

    1. A good physique: Most Naija women like their men tall, dark and handsome. Ok, maybe not all like them dark, but most likely tall and handsome with a good physique that speaks of confidence and good composure.

    2. A financially comfortable man: A woman is attracted to a man who can take care of himself financially, and also his family. A man who is financially capable of giving his woman comfort is usually more attractive than a man who can’t in most cases.

    3. A romantic man: Find a man who can say ‘I love you‘ at the right time, who knows when to take his woman on romantic dates, buy her romantic gifts… and you’ve found a woman’s man.

    4. ______________

    Let me stop here and allow you to complete the list. What do women find most attractive in men?

  • What Do Men Find Most Attractive In Women?

    There’s a saying that goes thus – ‘One man’s meat is another man’s poison‘.

    This applies to a variety of things, including a man’s type of woman. One man might like a slim woman, another might like a plump one. One man might like a dark skinned woman while another might like a light skinned one.

    However, there are general traits that men tend to like in women, things that attract them.

    I asked a few people and here are the most common answers I heard:

    1. A confident woman: A man likes a woman who is sure of her self, who speaks well, raises her head up high and can hold her ground anywhere.

    2. A beautiful woman: A man likes to look at pleasant things and a woman with a pleasant face and features is just right for him.

    3. A respectful woman: Most men have big egos and they like a woman who can stroke it and not disrespect it. Men in general are attracted to women who have a good level of respect for them.

    4. ______________

    I want to know what you think. SL Fabz, complete the list. What do men find most attractive in women?

    This question is for guys and ladies so let the comments roll in!

  • This Simple Message About Love And Life Will Change You Forever

    Sometimes, we forget how truly precious this gift of life is and how quickly it can be taken away. The hectic demands of our busy lives overwhelm us, and we forget to show love and kindness to people who truly matter. They could be family, they could be friends, they could even be complete strangers. The fact remains that everyone needs love, always, and we should be willing to give more than to receive.

    Today, I watched this inspiring video by Marc Mero, a former WCW, and WWE Champion professional wrestler. He has had an awesomely successful career in the sports and entertainment field. However it is amazing how the  attitudes, and values of a person can change when we lose a loved one. After the sudden death of his mother Marc realized what life is really all about.

    He gave this talk to a group of school students and by the time he was through, almost everyone was in tears.

    I was deeply touched by these words he said:

    Life is not all about winning the race, Life is about finishing the race and about how many people we can help finish this race
    How we can start being kinder to each other, how we can stop with the name calling and hurting other people
    Because in the end, it may be you that needs help

    So, before you say that hurtful word to the next person or ignore that person who truly cares about you, let’s not forget that life could be really short and that it just might be you who needs that person some other time.

    Let’s keep that thought in mind as we step into this awesome week.

    Watch the video:

  • How Can You Tell When A Woman Really Loves You?

    I asked the ladies the reverse of this question last week and got some feedback from my male fans who also wanted to know how to identify a lady who really loved a man.

    Apparently, its not only difficult for the ladies to tell when a man truly loves her, its also difficult for a man to identify a lady that truly loves him and is not playing with his heart.

    Women are more emotional than men, and obviously find it easy to express love even more than the men. They say it with words, with their body language, with their laughter, with their tears and more. On the reverse, a woman can also easily deceive a man, making him believe she loves him when she doesn’t.

    A woman who is truly in love with a man…

    1. Calls him or sends him messages often expressing her love for him
    2. Does interesting things to please him like cook his favorite meal
    3. _________________________

    It’s time again to hear from you. Complete the list. Guys, how can you tell when a woman really loves you? Ladies, what do you do to show that you really love a man?

  • How Can You Tell When A Man Really Loves You?

    Ladies, obviously this question is for you.

    Sure, men have different ways of expressing themselves when they are in love. Some show very vivid expressions of their love while some may be very subtle with it. But regardless of a man’s love language, a lady usually knows when a man loves her. There’s a certain way she feels around him, a feeling she doesn’t get with anyone else.

    Some ways men show they are in love are:

    1. He always wants to be around you
    2. He says the nicest things and the sweetest words to you
    3. __________________

    I’d love to hear from you. Complete the list. How can you tell when a man really loves you?

  • Give A Little Love

    Give A Little Love

    A little kindness, an encouraging smile, a loving help to a neighbour or complete stranger goes a long way in making the world a better place.

    This video tells us that in many ways. It is so interesting to see how showing kindness to someone can result in receiving an act of kindness by another person. There is definitely a reward for every act of kindness. It might not be from the person you are being kind to, but somehow, your good works make a way for other people to express love to you. (more…)

  • Welcome To February… The Month Of Love!

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    Wow! I can’t believe it.

    The first month of the year has already flown by and we are in February. It seems just like yesterday we were saying ‘Happy New Year’.

    February is an exciting month, especially for lovers. All around the world, it is regarded as the month of love. I’m sure y’all are counting down to that very important date – February 14th *wink* (more…)

  • A Word For The Ladies

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    Hi Ladies,

    The words in the picture above mean a lot and I think it’s something we should all take seriously.

    Many times as women, we tend to feel incomplete without a man by our side and would go to great lengths to ensure we don’t remain “single”. I know that feeling. (more…)

  • Love In The Banking Hall

    Love In The Banking Hall

    Who said Nigerian men are not romantic?

    Everytime I hear some ladies complain about the unromantic nature of most Nigerian men, I thank God I found someone who is not like that *wink*

    My hubby is every bit as romantic as I could possibly wish for. But then, I just found another romantic Nigerian man. Guess where? On YouTube! (more…)

  • I Totally Love This Fairy Tale Marriage Proposal!

    Fairy Tale Marriage Proposal

    I love fairy tales! Fairy tale love stories, fairy tale proposals, fairy tale weddings *wink* And so, when I came across this fairy tale marriage proposal, I totally loved it.

    While playing Peter Pan for a packed theater in Glasgow, Scotland, actor Sandor Sturbl got down on one knee to propose to his co-star and girlfriend, Lily-Jane Young, who was playing the part of Wendy.

    The proposal took Young, still in costume, completely by surprise.

    Although it was done on the stage, you could clearly see that the proposal wasn’t staged. She was so surprised, got very emotional and cried all through.

    The rest, as can be seen in the video below, was pure magic. (more…)