Category: Make me fabulous

  • #MakeMeFabulous: Why did I get Married?

    There’s a Tyler Perry movie with that title. The movie tries to expose some of the ups-and-downs we face in our marriages.

    It’s a situation many of us can relate to. After a while it seems love begins to slow down.

    But is that really the case? Or is it just an issue of other things distracting the couple from themselves.

    That is where #MakeMeFabulous comes in.

    We are repairing homes by helping couples rediscover themselves.

    If you have been too busy to notice how beautiful your wife is, then the programme is going to help you look at her in a different more pleasant way.

    And you can recount all the beautiful times you have shared.

    That’s what to expect from #MakeMeFabulous!

    So tomorrow, Sunday May 24, #MakeMeFabulous will be on your TV screens at 7pm on DSTV’s Africa Magic Showcase, Channel 151.

    Make sure you don’t miss it.

    And feel free to share your comments on this blog.

    Love always! xoxo

  • #MakeMeFabulous: Building Families…Happy Homes

    Family is the most important unit of living. A lot of angry, bitter, sociopathic people started their road to destruction from the home. This also applies to happy, kind, godly people.

    Our personalities are first formed from our homes. That is why it is important to ensure the home is made to be a place where love can foster, where kindness is nurtured. That is the only way we can begin to build happy parents and confident children.

    A violent, unsettled home would most likely breed its kind- children who are disturbed, unfulfilled, and destructive.

    Think of one person you know that lives on the imbalance of rage and tension; his/her issues would most likely have started from the home, with parent who were not available to train him/her; guardians who were unnecessarily harsh; maids who were abusive etc.

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    The consequences of that is the delinquent you see…or just the imbalanced individual you work with.

    It all starts from family.

    So I thought to myself, the best reality show Nigerians need is one that focuses on the family- the love unit.

    Man and woman fall in love; promise to love each other for the rest of their lives, take the vow, build promises and dreams together; get married…

    What then happens when they get into marriage? Why should the tempest of joy die so soon and leave one half of the unit feeling lost, unhappy and discontent?

    That is where #MakeMeFabulous comes in. I want to connect the man to the woman and vice versa. Remember who you fell in love with. Create the right atmosphere for love to grow. And bring back the beauty of your home…let it shine through when you sit together and talk about the future.

    The hustle of life is stealing the joy of the home.

    But we can get it back. #MakeMeFabulous is all about putting back that spark in your marriage. So you can build a happy home, with children who- through the examples of the parents- in turn will build a better society.

    It’s a cycle.

    I’m glad to be doing this.

    So let’s make it a date on our TV screens on Sunday, May 24, at 7pm on DSTV’s Africa Magic Showcase, Channel 151.

  • “I want love to win…” Stephanie premieres Reality Show- Make Me Fabulous, exclusively on Africa Magic

    A show about real life couples, real changes.

    Stephanie Linus produces a one-of-its-kind reality show Make Me Fabulous for married couples going through marital challenges- are we spending enough time together? Are we building the family of our dreams? Do I feel wanted in this marriage? Has this union changed me?

    Real people. Real issues. Real questions.

    Make Me Fabulous challenges the norm by addressing the issues of marriage, albeit aesthetic, that might affect everything else. It is 30 minutes of rekindling love with the help of beauty experts.

    The Love inspired reality show is set to hit TV screens on Sunday, May 24, at 7pm on DSTV’s Africa Magic Showcase, Channel 151. The series premieres with 13 full episodes this new season. With appealing transformations and a once in a lifetime lavish and luxurious retreat, couples are set on a journey that will ignite new meaning into their relationships.

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    Stephanie Linus, producer of Make Me Fabulous, stated: “I wanted to create an experience that would remind married couples of what they once vowed to- that love always resides within if they just stop and pay attention. Giving couples a chance to connect without distractions, so that they can remember why they fell in love in the first place. This is a show that keeps giving, to ensure that love stays at the epic centre of a family. I want love to win in people’s lives, so I am giving it the attention it deserves.”

    Unscripted, Make Me Fabulous promises 13 romantic, heart-warming episodes that feature newlyweds, to relationships spanning over decades. These are couples selected from Stephanie’s blog, Stephaniedaily.com where all updates, behind the scenes and exclusive bonuses can be found.

    To connect with the contestants and to stay updated on the couples, viewers can visit stephaniedaily.com/MakeMeFabulousTV. Join the discussion on social media- Twitter and Facebook using the hashtag #makemefabulousTV.

    Media interested in a feature or an interview with Stephanie regarding the TV show should contact info@icypr.com. For more on Stephanie Linus please visit www.stephanielinusdaily.com/

  • Kindness: The Ripple Effect

    Once you begin to acknowledge random acts of kindness – both the ones you have received and the ones you have given – you can no longer believe that what you do does not matter. –Dawna Markova

    I can’t remember anytime I was ever kind to someone and I didn’t get a good reward for it. Sometimes, people repay kindness with wickedness, I know that. But the reward doesn’t really come from them so don’t be discouraged.

    Kindness is a win-win-win scenario which produces beneficial effects in the giver, the recipient and the observer. People naturally feel good when they give, help or serve others and the recipient of such kind acts are usually very happy to receive such kindness.

    It really isn’t difficult to be kind. Anybody can do it.

    The act of kindness can be expressed in countless ways. A warm hello said to a stranger, giving money to those in need, allowing cars in front of yours in traffic, giving your seat on a bus to an older person…

    According to Dr David Hamilton, these are the 5 side effects of kindess:

    1) Kindness Makes us Happier
    When we do something kind for someone else, we feel good.

    2) Kindness Gives us Healthier Hearts
    Acts of kindness are often accompanied by emotional warmth.

    3) Kindness Slows Ageing
    Ageing on a biochemical level is a combination of many things, but two culprits that speed the process are Free Radicals and Inflammation, both of which result from making unhealthy lifestyle choices. One study that used the Tibetan Buddhist’s ‘Loving Kindness Compassion’ meditation found that kindness and compassion did, in fact, reduce inflammation in the body, mostly likely due to its effects on the vagus nerve.

    4) Kindness Makes for Better Relationships
    This is because kindness reduces the emotional distance between two people and so we feel more ‘bonded’. We are wired for kindness.

    5) Kindness is Contagious
    When we’re kind we inspire others to be kind and studies show that it actually creates a ripple effect that spreads outwards to our friends’ friends’ friends – to 3-degrees of separation.

    But one of the most rewarding things about being kind is seeing how it causes a ripple effect on others and encourages them to be kind too. I’ve seen in my life how the ripple effect leads to changes both externally and internally and its a path I’d like to encourage you to tread on.

    Be kind to someone today, and in that way, we can make the world a better place.

  • Don’t Waste Your Time

    Don’t waste your time trying to get people to love you. Spend your time with those who already do.
    Don’t waste your time on people who see you as you were instead of as you are. If they can’t let go of the past, let go of them.
    Don’t waste your time with explanations, people only hear what they want to hear.
    Don’t waste your time on someone who isn’t willing to waste their time on you.
    Your time is precious, don’t waste it on someone who doesn’t realise that you are too.
    There are two things you shouldn’t waste your time on: things that don’t matter and people that think you don’t matter.
    Don’t waste your time on things that only hurt you, and remember to forget those who forgot you.
    Don’t waste words on people who deserve your silence.
    Don’t waste your time on revenge, those that hurt you will eventually face their own Karma.
    Be a good person, but don’t waste time to prove it.

  • Feeling Beautiful Without Makeup

    I read this story written by a lady called Maya Rupert on how she saw herself in a gorgeous new light after she bought foundation to “correct” her skin tone. It was published on Oprah and I just had to share it here. Believe me, this will change the way you feel about makeup:

    I was 27 years old when a clerk at a cosmetics counter told me I was looking at the wrong shade of foundation. Instead of the color I had worn for the last several years, which matched my skin tone, she encouraged me to get one that was actually two shades lighter. Registering skepticism, she explained that I should try to go as light as I could get away with because with my complexion, she said, “you wouldn’t want to get any darker.”

    There was no question in her voice. She didn’t say it as if she were stating a preference, but rather a fact, the same way she would have advised me on how best to apply blush or find a base that wouldn’t dry out my skin. I was humiliated by her assumption that it was an unspoken understanding between us: that obviously, if given the choice, I would change this thing about the way I looked.

    As a black woman with dark skin, it wasn’t the first time I had been told—subtly and often not so subtly—that my complexion was a deficit I had to overcome to be beautiful. But the fact that the saleswoman, who was white, said it not out of malice, but seemingly with genuine concern, made me feel worse. I didn’t think she was criticizing me; she was trying to help me. And I was terrified that she—an expert—knew something I didn’t. I bought the foundation.

    At home, I dipped the sponge in the compact and covered my face with the powder. I couldn’t bring myself to look in the mirror as I applied it.

    When I finally did look, I was horrified: I had to admit that I looked prettier than I’d ever remembered. I had to admit that my dark skin was unattractive, and that being lighter really did mean being more attractive.

    I wept. Then I went to wash my face. But the makeup wouldn’t come off. I scrubbed hard; still nothing. That’s when I looked at the compact and realized I hadn’t pulled off the protective paper. In fact, I hadn’t been wearing any makeup at all.

    After seven years and countless applications of the right shade of makeup, that moment has stayed with me. Whenever I question whether my complexion is beautiful (which is more often than I should, but less often than I might), I think back to that moment when I saw my face—my bare face—and thought it was so beautiful, it made me cry.

    Light skin, dark skin… every one is indeed beautiful. Yes, makeup does often enhance beauty but if you don’t begin to see yourself as beautiful inwardly, no one can convince you that you are even with layers of makeup on.

    She hadn’t even applied any makeup on but just the ‘thought’ of being lighter than she was made her feel more beautiful. And the fact is that there was nothing on her face!

    Ladies, bask in your natural beauty and let it radiate.

     

    *Picture used is not that of the writer.

  • Make It Happen! Happy International Women’s Day 2015

    I feel so proud to be a woman right now, and I congratulate every woman reading this today.

    Happy International Women’s Day!

    Sunday 8 March 2015 marks International Women’s Day, an annual event that celebrates women’s accomplishments and promotes global gender equality.

    This year’s theme is ‘make it happen’ and aims to encourage effective action for advancing and recognizing women. It focuses on women in different professional sectors; the arts, female-owned businesses, in senior leadership roles, and all aspects of working environments where gender parity has still not been achieved.

    I am very glad about this year’s theme, and it comes at the right time. As women, we need to strive even more to make things happen in our chosen fields. In our families, our businesses, our careers, in leadership…. we need to aim for the best always.

    To every woman out there reading this, I say, make it happen!

    *I have a question for every woman reading this. What makes you proud to be a woman?

  • How Do You Feel When You Look In The Mirror?

    Too often, women look in the mirror and don’t like what they see.

    #IAmEnough, an all female band, wanted to change this, to show women they are enough just the way they are.

    When the mirror in the video gives these women real feedback about themselves, and what they are like from other peoples view, you can see love conquering all, and real healing happening! The lies of comparison, low self- esteem, society, and most of all the enemy are being brought to light, and kicked out!

    I give kudos to the people who put this inspiring video together. It’s so touching. Watch below:

    Next time you look in the mirror think about that! When we accept, love ourselves, and others, we are so much more than a negative reflection in the mirror. We are much more beautiful than enough!

  • #WomenIssues: Human Trafficking/Sex Slavery

    The month of March is regarded worldwide as Women’s Month. This is primarily because the International Women’s Day falls on March 8th, a global day celebrating the economic, political and social achievements of women past, present and future. Also, in the United States of America, March is regarded as the Women’s History Month.

    This month therefore, I’d like us to discuss some important issues we face as women, with the hope of finding lasting solutions to them.

    Human trafficking affects women, men and children. But the primary victims worldwide are women and female children, the majority of whom are trafficked for sexual exploitation.

    Trafficking is a modern-day form of slavery. Sex trafficking is the exploitation of women and children, within national or across international borders, for the purpose of forced sex work. Adult women make up the largest group of sex trafficking victims, followed by female children.

    I could go on and on defining trafficking and sex slavery or giving statistics on them. But what I want to point out today is that women do not voluntarily put themselves in situations where they are exploited, beaten, raped and enslaved. Women do not traffic themselves. Criminals who recruit, buy and sell women and girls are the crucial intermediaries for delivering women into prostitution and other harmful practices. They use force, coercion, seduction, deception, and any other techniques that are effective in controlling the women and girls they are trading.

    My call today is to parents and guardians of female children. I know it can get really hard taking care of children. Many times, poverty and economic hardship doesn’t make the situation better as parents and guardians are forced to make decisions on behalf of the girl child that would have a huge negative impact on them. We need to protect that girl child, and when I say ‘we’, I don’t mean just the parents and guardians, but the entire nation.

    The harm of sexual exploitation extends from the individual to the community and to the nation. It might not have happened to someone you know, but we cannot ignore it. When a country permits sexual exploitation or trafficking to flourish, a certain portion of each generation of young women will be lost.

    It is a collective responsibility which we must all have a part of in our own little way. A small gift, a good advice, a short prayer, a little donation, a token of our love might be all it takes to rewrite someone’s destiny.

    Let’s protect the girl child.

  • 20 Motivational Quotes That Will Inspire You to Succeed

    Success is what we strive for everyday. In our personal lives, career, homes, relationships, businesses and more, the fulfillment that comes from being successful at an endeavor cannot be overemphasized.

    Sometimes we need encouraging words to propel us towards such success and I hope these quotes will inspire you today:

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    This Info­graphic is the cour­tesy of SuccessStory.com

    Which one is your favourite?