Tag: DRY

  • Why I Stand for Her!

    Many people do not understand why I am so passionate about Child Marriage and Gender related issues. I have been asked several times why I chose to do a film with a strong social message like ‘DRY’. We live in a society that tells women to keep quiet and accept whatever fate is meted to them. We shame women who speak out and even more pathetic is the fact that majority of such lash back comes from other women.

    Nothing can change if we refuse to question written and unwritten norms that continually put women at a disadvantage. Having realized from an early age, the power of the media inspiring social change and political change, I have resolved to lend my voice all for ‘her’. It is beyond joining the next hashtag bandwagon which mostly ridicule the real issues.

    “Her” is a girl like Halima, who is given out in marriage at an early age and deprived of her rights to education, and freedom. She is the lady who is denied a seat at the table because there is not room enough for women. She is the daughter who is denied rights to her father’s properties because well, she is a woman. She is vulnerable and often times unheard.

    These are the real issues, and it is high time we understood that standing for her is standing for all. 

    My greatest desire is to live in a world that is fairer, safer and more conducive for “her” to live out her dreams.

     

  • ‘DRY’ isn’t just a movie, it’s a revelation – Kolawole Adeyalo

    ‘Dry’ isn’t just a movie, it’s a revelation, and as a man, I feel touched in a way I haven’t felt before. I feel everything Halima went through even though I am not a female. I appreciate your effort, and I believe someone out there is smiling because of you.

    This poem is my own way of feeling your movie, I hope more people can be ‘Dry’

    I Used To Have A Dream

    I used to think about what could have been
    whenever I gaze upon the rising sun.
    there is a broken pot in me,
    and I’m just another carrier of shards,
    forever wet with the shame of unknown fistula.
    I used to have dreams about the white collar
    I believed in a life of stethoscope
    Because I felt that was why my parents sent me to elementary.
    I never wondered why I look like a younger sister to my mother,
    I never understood why my father looks so old
    I wasn’t wise enough to realize the cycle
    I am just a little girl trying to find my feet.
    I wasn’t even two dozens old
    they told me I had to get married
    what seemed weird to me
    was perfectly fine with everyone else.
    Do not remind me of the moon please
    didn’t it shine on my shame when I lost my pride ?
    his white beards scratched me
    while heaven looked on and smiled with the moon.
    I used to have a dream of impending happiness,
    kids I would call my own
    I am not even earth enough
    but they want me to grow a seed!
    why force a stone inside a small calabash?
    I used to dream of life,
    now the sun is setting,
    and I’m still not dry.
    I am still a broken piece,
    another of numerous naive victims.
    I am a voice so tiny
    my ears hurt from jeers!
    I am a walking puppet
    tuned to the dance of men,
    men who parade me and others in a show of shame.
    I used to believe in being alive
    which is why ask,
    why should I die bringing life?
    Who is listening?
    We don’t stop what we watch.

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    Thank you so much Kolawole for this touching poem. 

    Have you watched DRY? What did you learn from it? Please email info@stephaniedaily.com and share your story on DRY to join the Movie Club.

    Want to see it? Order now from Jumia or Konga or check your nearest stores. To buy DRY on Jumia, CLICK HERE. To buy DRY on Konga, CLICK HERE.

    SL

  • “You stole my joy, you murdered my happiness” – Amoaa Oppong-Kwakye

    I am a 22 year-old Ghanaian lady. I am a poet.

    After watching DRY, I couldn’t control my tears. I felt the pain of Halima. It was my first time of hearing about Fistula and I really want to help girls and women in such situation.

    Below is the poem I wrote, I dedicate it to all girls who go through such situation.

    CHILD NOT BRIDE
    Under the silvery stare of the moon,
    The children sat to listen to soul refreshing tales
    Beneath the starry blue skies,
    We smiled and laughed and galloped our ignorance of the world away
    It was in the nakedness of the breeze that I learned to smile my soul away
    And I enjoyed it; A perfect peace
    And out of the blue came the fifty nine year-old weary man, Alhaji (FUSENI)
    His defective smile exposing his cola nut stained teeth
    With a keg of palm wine
    And a saddened cow in hand
    That moment, every joy I have known turned to ashes in my mouth
    The very ground on which I stood gave me up
    The warm uterus I knew turned cold
    The strong arms that protected me slipped off
    Like garbage, I was disposed, abandoned, rejected,
    That night, my guardian had darkness for a smile
    My innocence forced out of my being
    I had tears for supper that night,
    That devastating, dismantling, smashing, shattering night,
    The stain on my body could not be cleansed
    I battled with unknown demons he possessed
    And as if by magic, he planted his seed
    On my tiny piece of fertile land
    I sat helplessly. watching my innocence slip away from me
    In the glare of the sun
    The moments I spent with my friends
    Crushing right in front of me
    I am just a child but you snatched my childhood
    You stole my joy
    You murdered my happiness
    You strangled my future right before my eyes

    I’m a child not a bride!!

    My body and soul and spirit and being
    You tortured
    When the seed you planted in me withered and died,
    You called me a witch
    You stole my joy, you murdered my happiness
    You strangled my future right before my eyes

    I am a child not a bride!!

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    Thank you Amoaa for sharing this lovely poem. You described Halima’s pain so vividly with your words.

    Have you watched DRY? What did you learn from it? Please email info@stephaniedaily.com and share your story on DRY to join the Movie Club.

    Want to see it? Order now from Jumia or Konga or check your nearest stores. To buy DRY on Jumia, CLICK HERE. To buy DRY on Konga, CLICK HERE.

    SL

  • “Before watching DRY I never knew Fistula even existed” – Nancy Chidimma

    I have never cried as hard as I did watching DRY. Before watching DRY I never knew Fistula even existed. Thanks for raising awareness about this.

    I am a lady who has a special interest in the welfare and all round development of the girl child. Dry was an eye opener for me. I told everyone I know to watch it because it has a massage for all. Mrs Stephanie Okereke Linus may God bless and preserve you, thanks for giving young girls out there a voice.

    I am a Psychologist and I know first hand the trauma young girls go through when their childhood is ripped away from them. Thank you for being an inspiration to young women out here. DRY made me realize what we owe our younger generation.

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    It warms my heart every time I get such touching emails. Truly, knowledge is power, and if we are empowered with the right knowledge, we can touch people’s lives in positive ways. 

    Have you watched DRY? What did you learn from it? Please email info@stephaniedaily.com and share your story on DRY to join the Movie Club.

    Want to see it? Order now from Jumia or Konga or check your nearest stores. To buy DRY on Jumia, CLICK HERE. To buy DRY on Konga, CLICK HERE.

    Thank you so much, Nancy. Truly, we owe our younger generation so much.

    SL

  • A Viewer’s Touching Letter About ‘DRY’ – Addo Vanes

    My biggest testimony about the movie ‘DRY’ is the way it encourages people to be the change they want in their society. I recently got this email from someone in Ghana who watched DRY recently and was deeply touched by the honest feedback which I’d love to share with you today.

    Here it is:

    My name is Addo Vanes. I am 24 years old and a graduate of University of Ghana, Legon. I studied Political Science and Information Studies. I love community service, fashion, old African songs and choreography.

    Since I went to college in 2012 to date, I hardly watch television because I was schooling and working. So I hardly have time just to sit and watch TV for an hour. I just want to do a good job, work well and cause no harm.

    On the 1st of January this year, I was writing another 365-journey story with God’s help. I stayed in my house all day and moved to my mum’s house at about 4pm. I left with my aunt to her house after I left mum’s. So we were chatting and she put on her TV as usual. There was a Mexican telenovela being shown and they were watching while I was chatting on the phone. Right after the telenovela, she changed the TV station to GTV where was a movie being shown. Right when I saw a little girl crying I told her not to change the station. Lo and behold, it was DRY. But since I didn’t see the beginning of the movie I didn’t see the title. So I googled ‘STEPHANIE OKEREKE’S FISTULA MOVIE’. And I saw it as DRY.  

    I have not been stricken this much in my life like the time I watched that movie. I even prayed for people in such situation the next day. I googled the entire cast and I didn’t find most of them on social media except you. God bless you immeasurably. There are so many injustices targeted to the rural communities in African countries. Early childhood marriages, female genital mutilation, and in Ghana we have Trokosi where girls are married off to gods. It’s horrible. Thank you for using your stardom and voice to bring our knowledge to this. I cried on my way from my aunt’s place to my house because I was posted to a town outside the city after University for my service but I declined the offer and changed it to Accra. The movie made me know that God wanted to use me to help the community or even just one child. So I have made a conscious effort to help my community one day. Right after watching the movie I have joined several Fistula Organizations worldwide which I use my social media handles, especially Twitter, to raise awareness about it. Because I could not find one in Ghana, I choose to join the online ones to help spread the message to save our girls from early marriages and the shame and deprivation that comes with fistula. SO THIS LETTER OF MINE IS TO SAY THANK YOU MRS LINUS FOR THIS DRY MOVIE WHICH TOOK OVER MY ENTIRE MOOD. MORE GRACE TO DO MORE.
    GOD BLESS MRS STEPHANIE OKEREKE LINUS!!! GOD BLESS NEXT PAGE PRODUCTIONS!!!
    GOD BLESS DRY!!!! GOD BLESS AFRICA!!!!!

    Have you watched DRY? What did you learn from it?

    Want to see it? Order now from Jumia or Konga or check your nearest stores. To buy DRY on Jumia, CLICK HERE. To buy DRY on Konga, CLICK HERE.

    To join my (DRY)movie club: email info@stephaniedaily.com and share your story on DRY.

    Thank you so much Addo for the kind words. I’m glad you were inspired by the movie.

    SL

  • Partnering With The Canadian High Commission To Empower The African Child

    Hey lovelies,

    Welcome to a new week!

    Last Thursday, I was opportune to be a keynote speaker at the ‘African Child Campaign’ organized by the Canadian High Commission in Abuja where I spoke alongside the Canadian High Commissioner to Nigeria, Perry John Calderwood under the theme “Empowering African girls to reach their full potential by delaying marriage and staying in school”.

    The two-part event included a the screening of Africa’s Best Overall Movie ‘DRY’ and a Press Conference where myself and the Canadian High Commissioner highlighted the efforts we’ve have been employing to enable African women and girls reach their full potential, free from coercion, discrimination and violence.

    Some highlights of my remarks included the need for educating the African Child and how DRY has been shifting conversations around the world, thereby shinning the spotlight on the African girl-child.  Here is an excerpt:

    “As we watch this movie and as we discuss here today, let it be foremost in our minds that the education of girls, especially the most marginalized, is key to their survival & that of the future generation.”

    The Canadian High Commissioner also reiterated the Canadian government’s commitment to gender equality and the empowerment of women and girls and highlighted some of their recent campaign efforts in Nigeria and other African countries.

    The movie was well received by members of the press, staff of the Canadian High Commission and all invited guests who lauded DRY, a world-class movie which is being used as a tool to create awareness about the plight of the African Child.

    Here are some photos from the event:

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    Processed with MOLDIV

    Processed with MOLDIV

    Processed with MOLDIV

  • DRY Gets 12 Nominations For The Nollywood & African Film Critics’ Awards (NAFCA) 2016!

    Hey dearies,

    I’m so happy to share that DRY has again gotten some nominations for a prestigious Award in the diaspora.  This time, it’s the NAFCA.

    The Nollywood & African Film Critics’ Awards, also known as NAFCA, is an accolade bestowed by the Nollywood Film Critics USA the official movie review organization for Nollywood and African films to recognize excellence of professionals in the African film industry. The annual formal ceremony started September 16, 2011 in North Carolina, USA. Nollywood & African Film Critics’ Awards is one of the most prominent award ceremonies in Africa and the Diaspora.

    DRY received the following nominations in 12 categories:

    1. Best Film
    2. Best Drama
    3. Best Screenplay
    4. Best Visual Effects
    5. Best Cinematography
    6. Best Editing
    7. Best Sound
    8. Best Actor in leading role – Darwin Shaw
    9. Best Actress in leading role – Stephanie Linus
    10. Best Actress in supporting role – Liz Benson Ameye
    11. Best Director in a Film – Stephanie Linus
    12. Best Makeup

    The Awards Ceremony will take place on the 17th of September 2016 at the Orpheum Theatre in Los Angeles California, USA and will air worldwide.

    We hope to win some of these awards at the event. Wish us luck!

  • Great News! Gambia & Tanzania Have Banned Child Marriage

    I feel very happy to share this news!

    The campaign against forced and child marriage is yielding good results in more and more African countries, and as a strong advocate against this practice, it gladdens my heart whenever I read that laws have been put in place to protect the rights of children.

    The latest countries to join this train are Gambia and Tanzania. According to a recent news report, child marriage has been banned in both countries and tough penalties will be met on those who are found breaking the law.

    Here is an excerpt from the news report by BBC:

    The Gambia and Tanzania have banned child marriage, with tough penalties for those who breach the rulings.
    Gambia’s President Yayha Jammeh announced that anyone marrying a girl below 18 would be jailed for up to 20 years. In Tanzania, the high court imposed a landmark ruling outlawing marriage under the age of 18 for boys and girls. Some 30% of underage girls are married in The Gambia, while in Tanzania the rate is 37%. Before the Tanzania ruling, girls as young as 14 could marry with parental consent, while it was 18 for boys.

    Putting such laws in place to ban child marriage is definitely a step in the right direction!

    I recall that this was one of the topics we discussed during the African Youth Summit Banjul Plus 10 in Gambia recently which I attended. At the event, my movie DRY which speaks against child marriage was well received and I’m glad we are getting more positive results from that region.

    We need more countries to follow in this direction, thereby creating a safer world for our children.

  • DRY Wins Big at the AMAA Awards 2016!

    Hey lovelies,

    The 2016 Africa Movie Academy Awards ceremony took place on Saturday 11 June 2016 at the Obi Wali International Conference Center in Port Harcourt, Rivers State and I’m so glad DRY picked up two awesome awards at the event!

    DRY picked up the award for the Best Nigerian Film, and also, Zubaidat Ibrahim Fagge (the pretty young girl who played the role of Halima, the child bride) won the Best Young and Promising Actor.

    Zubaidat Ibrahim Fagge
    Zubaidat Ibrahim Fagge

    I’m very grateful for these awards and to everyone who has supported this dream. It means a lot to me.

    Thank you all so very much!

  • Vice President of Gambia Isatou Njie-Saidy, United Nations Population Fund (UNFPA) host ‘DRY’ in Gambia

    Hey lovelies,

    I trust you’ve been having a great day so far!

    So, my award winning movie, DRY, recently made a debut in Gambia with a well-attended screening during the African Youth Summit Banjul Plus 10. The movie was not only well received and greeted with a standing ovation afterwards, but was lauded by all and further opened up the conversation around maternal health care and Fistula in Africa.

    The audience was made up of distinguished personalities including the Vice President of Gambia, Dr Isatou Njie Saidy; UNFPA Regional Director for West & Central Africa, Mr Mabingue Ngom; Assistant Minister for Youth Liberia, Ms. Kula Fonfana and many others.

    The summit was organised in collaboration with the United Nations Population Fund (UNFPA) to capture the creative, innovative and pro-active voices of African youth and utilize these voices as a tool to encourage decision makers to address the myriad issues young people on the continent face. It focused on discussions around reinforcing implementation of the policy frameworks in Africa and their pivotal role in harnessing the youth potentials to attain the Demographic Dividend and Africa’s inclusive growth and sustainable development.

    Inspired by the true story of a young girl living with Vesico Vaginal Fistula, DRY features Darwin Shaw as Dr. Alex, the legendary Liz Benson Ameye as the Matron and Bill McNamara as Dr. Brown. The movie also stars Zubaida Ibrahim as Halima, the teenager who had to endure a life not designed for a child: to be married to a man who was more than four times her age.

    This screening comes just a few weeks after the DRY premiere in Zambia which was attended by the Zambian First Lady, Mrs Esther Lungu.

    DRY is currently on an African tour and will be showing in other countries in the coming weeks.

    PHOTOS:

    Mrs Victoria Ginja, Resident Rep. of the World Food Programme in The Gambia, Stephanie Linus & Ms. Kula Fonfana, Assistant Youth Minister, Liberia
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    Chief, Non Core Funds, UNFPA, Demola Olajide & Head of Office, UNFPA Gambia, Kunle Adeniyi
    Chief, Non Core Funds, UNFPA, Demola Olajide & Head of Office, UNFPA Gambia, Kunle Adeniyi
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    Mrs Victoria Ginja, Resident Rep. of the World Food Programme in The Gambia, Stephanie Linus & Ms. Kula Fonfana, Assistant Youth Minister, Liberia
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