Tag: Talk to Steph

  • Talk To Steph: Who Should I Marry?

    Hello Stephanie,

    I’m in a very difficult situation now and I hope your readers can help me out.

    I am 28 years-old and I have a boyfriend I have been dating for three years. We met in the University and started dating the year we graduated. The thing is he has been finding it very difficult getting a good job to help him settle down and start a family, but I’ve been very supportive and hoping things will get better for him. He also has some younger siblings that he’s taking care of. However, I recently met an older man who has lived abroad for many years and is ready to marry me. He has way more money than my boyfriend. He has met my parents and although they like my boyfriend, they are getting impatient with him and suggesting I should go for this older man.

    I’m so confused right now. Most of my friends are married or have kids already and I don’t want to get older before I settle down. Should I wait for my boyfriend to get more financially stable and marry me or leave him for this older man who is ready to get married now? – Sharon

    Hello, dearies! What do you advise Sharon to do?

  • What’s the best relationship advice you’ve ever received?

    One thing I find most singles struggling with is the signals they get from people they are dating or have an interest in. We’ve all been there before.

    Here is a common scenario:

    Guy meets girl. Guy initiates conversation. They go out on a few dates and girl starts to ask “what are we doing?” “are we dating?” “are we now a couple?” Guy says “yes, of course we are!”

    But, a few days or weeks later, he starts to pull away. He acts like he’s no longer interested and its so hard to get him on the phone to chat for those long hours like you used to. Dates are now few and far in-between and girl begins to wonder what happened.

    A good friend of mine once told me, “If a person is into you, they’ll move heaven and earth to see you.” And that’s what I’d like to share with single ladies and guys out there. Do not waste your time on a partner who does not recognize your worth. The moment you realize your worth, you shift your energy to attract new people who respect your worth. It starts with you first.

    I hope this resonates with you and that you value yourself more whether single, dating, or married.

    Share with me… what’s the best relationship advice you ever received?

  • Welcome To “Talk To Stephanie” Video Series

    Hi Amazonians! I’ve got some exciting news to share with you.

    Since I started this blog a few years ago, I’ve had the best moments interacting with my awesome readers on the “Talk To Steph” posts which I share occasionally. This later grew into a segment on the Make Me Fabulous TV Show where I interact with couples and talk about their marital journey.

    I don’t claim to have the answers to everything, but in my opinion, sharing is a major step to healing when going through challenges that are beyond you. Sometimes it might not be a challenge, it could just be something you’ve been pondering upon that you need to discuss with someone else. I’ll like to fill in that gap and be someone you can talk to.

    You, my dear Amazonians, have given me so much support and love over the years and I am honored to get even closer to you through this platform. Now you get to see and hear me speak, not just write to you. Isn’t this exciting?!

    Do you have any topic you would like me to discuss? Do you have any question for me? Feel free to drop a comment and you can be sure I’ll be reading it. I might just respond in my next video 🙂

  • Happy New Month Amazonians!

    It’s another lovely new month!

    Welcome to the month of November Amazonians. I am so happy we made it to this point in the year and I’m excited about the great things in store for us all before the end of the year.

    This November, may you enjoy success at it’s peak and grace at it’s depth. Take a step towards living the life of your dreams and watch everything fall into place.

    Enjoy the month to the fullest!

  • If You Had A Million Dollars…

    What would you do with it?

    I mean, if that money was all yours and you had to make a decision on how best to use it. What would your decision be?

  • Make Me Fabulous Season 2 Episode 9

    Make Me Fabulous is back with another banging episode!

    Lolade & Adedapo were our special guests on the 9th episode of Make Me Fabulous Season 2 and they had the time of their lives! It was not only a great time to relax, unwind and rekindle the spark in their marriage, it was also a unique time for them to renew their vows once again. Adedapo got everyone in tears the moment he got on one knee to propose to his wife yet again and promise his love and commitment to her.

    Their lovely kids were on set to celebrate the beautiful moment with them. You can’t afford to miss this episode.

    Watch below: