What I know for sure!

You is kind.

You is smart.

You is important.

Bad English (LOL!), but those are the most memorable words ever. I got it from the book and movie, The Help. After the character Aibeeelen witnesses the child (Mae Mobley Leefort) she is caring for being hurt over and over again by her mother, she decides to do something about it. Everyday she tells the young child in her care something good about herself: “You is Kind. You is smart. You is important, you hear me?”

I believe a message like this needs to spread to every child in Nigeria. We have too many timid children (made timid mostly by the people who should shower them with unconditional love). If this country is ever going to become great, we have to remind ourselves how special we are – and it starts with the man/woman in the mirror.

I am special. And so are you! *wink*

Happy Sunday!

 

Comments

  1. priscilla Avatar
    priscilla

    Well said sweedy

  2. Jenny Okons Avatar
    Jenny Okons

    I love it! Am rilly inspired now. Bless u steph!

  3. Marc le Pere Mwanto Avatar
    Marc le Pere Mwanto

    I am also special as like Stephanie Okereke.

  4. Rachael Niskan Avatar
    Rachael Niskan

    Me is special thanks swthrt 4 d message (lolz)

  5. funmi Adeleke Avatar

    Very true. At a tender age i didn’t hear that very much and was forced to bear lots of things in school and later in life. But what i know for sure now is that Im Kind, Im Smart n Im important. Thanks for sharing words of encouragement Stephanie!

  6. Aluka basil c Avatar
    Aluka basil c

    gud

  7. chynell Avatar
    chynell

    same here steph….
    *happy sunday*

  8. Ibok Offiong Avatar

    So true and well said Steph… I loved that movie too, and for the same singular reason. Wish all parents and guardians would watch and learn a thing or maybe 2 from the movie…

  9. Ebuka Okoye Avatar
    Ebuka Okoye

    Happy Sunday… Luv d pix, nice cloth and colour full of life… God bless you

  10. poshbaby Avatar
    poshbaby

    Well said

  11. ifunanya vivian Avatar
    ifunanya vivian

    You inspire me wit ur attitude! Please continue to be u. God is ur strength. Love u sister.

  12. Chidinma Avatar
    Chidinma

    Happy Sunday to u stephanie,luv ya.huggs n kisses

  13. patience Awhen Avatar
    patience Awhen

    U’ve said it al. I luv u

  14. uche Avatar
    uche

    You are very intelligent my dear, ahead you go, God will always be with you in jesus name amen

  15. Aysha Avatar
    Aysha

    I am smart, I am intelligent, I am blessed and favour is my name.

  16. Afekhuai Mandy Toyin Avatar
    Afekhuai Mandy Toyin

    Yes! I am special.

  17. Lovegod Inegite Avatar
    Lovegod Inegite

    Happy 2 u my sister, God bless u dis message.

  18. ify london Avatar
    ify london

    Happy sunday luvly steph..U’re an Inspiration to ME…luv u LOADS!!!

  19. Ify Avatar

    U made a nice statement,pals nomatter how small u are,ur background,what u are passing through always have in mind that u are important and wonderfully made 4m God. Frnd i Wil like to hear 4m u,u did me bad thing

  20. folayan rasool Avatar

    This should be taught to children everywhere

  21. Agboola Abimbola Avatar
    Agboola Abimbola

    NICE ONE

  22. Jenny baby Avatar

    For sure we all need positive words…like I always say be positive and stay positve….hapi sunday steph

  23. omorefe naomi lydia Avatar
    omorefe naomi lydia

    i love this statement and i am special

  24. tonia Avatar
    tonia

    I luv this

  25. Ernest Isang Avatar
    Ernest Isang

    That is true,but we all so forget to teach them about the future if we can teach ++++++++++++++ then it will work for us all,bring up a child the right way and he will never depart from it.

  26. Adaobi Avatar
    Adaobi

    Nice talk i will no more feel inferior among my peers.I believe now dat am specially made.Thanks Steph and have a lovely sunday.

  27. amazingrace Avatar
    amazingrace

    Sure on point.

  28. Uju Avatar

    Absolutely true.

    Deep inside I know I`m Special, Smart and Important and would not agree otherwise.

    Nice and great reminder.

  29. loveth Avatar
    loveth

    Happy Sunday to u too, God bless u and ur household.

  30. Nicole Avatar
    Nicole

    Nice one.

  31. pattyclues Avatar

    That’s a true word, steph.

  32. charyz Avatar
    charyz

    luv yeah always

  33. sylvia Avatar
    sylvia

    I’m so inspired. Thanks Nollywood Goddess

  34. Cathy Avatar

    you is sweet, you is stunning, you is steph! i love you

  35. Joseph Otim Avatar
    Joseph Otim

    Steph, u r too much 4 me. Whatever u say, put on and deliver to ur funs, r as if calculated. Are u also a Mathematician? Gal!! dat dress of urs is simple but can turn into ‘weapon of mass destruction’. I lv it, cheers!!!!

  36. jennıfer jey Avatar
    jennıfer jey

    I was born out of wedluck in  everybody’s eye am noting, but your world inspired me i now know how inportant and special iam in  this world cos i know that one day i wil be inportant to those who sees me as noting, experically my mother’s family…thanks for U̶̲̥̅̊я world may the good lord be with u!

  37. Jiro Avatar
    Jiro

    A beautiful piece… Keep inspiring

  38. Ebuka Tony Avatar
    Ebuka Tony

    Dats good! Is a kind of word every person will love 2 hear….thanks Stephanie……

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