Stephanie Linus Daily

Category: Relationships

  • IT’S NATIONAL SIBLINGS DAY!

    Today, April 10, is National Siblings day. We do not get to choose our siblings, they are gifted to us by God, which makes it a very special relationship that should be nurtured with understanding and love.

    This is a special day to let your siblings know how much they mean to you. Shower them with appreciation in any form – whether gifts, kind messages or take them out for a nice lunch, where you can share some of your stories growing up. Bond all over again. Find ways to reconnect, and celebrate your love for each other; re-devout yourself by promising to have each other’s back. Your sisters and brothers are a huge part of your life.

    Here are heartwarming sibling messages:

    *My brother is my strength and even if he is not with me I can feel him heartily.

    *Siblings are made to face any situation of life together.

    *My sister always sees her superhero in me and I’m proud to be her brother.

    *A sister can be your mother, a teacher, a guide, and a friend.

    *Without a sibling-like you, my childhood would be incomplete.

    *I have a sibling and therefore, I have a friend for life!

    *The reason behind my unforgettable and awesome childhood is you, my sibling!

    *Whether we are side by side or apart, we are still siblings and keep on remembering from the heart.

    xoxo

  • Sisterhood: The amazing things women do for one another

    We are celebrating sisterhood – women who choose to nurture friendship and build wholesome and rewarding relationships.

    We ask three women the wonderful thing Sisterhood has done for them:

    “Sisterhood saved me. I was going through a separation from a relationship that took ten years of my life. I was depressed and didn’t think I had much to live for. My friends came together and built this safe nest for me where we spoke every day, we prayed together and they took me out of town to feel new again. If it wasn’t for them, I wouldn’t have survived that phase of my life.” – Ebube

    “I am 50 years old, and there’s so much I am learning from my younger relatives. They seem to have more wholesome friendships than we did. It is a beautiful paradox because they still prioritise personal needs. During my time, women compete, gossip wickedly and fight over ownership of men. But these days, these young women are prioritizing friendship and spending more time building sisterhood. I think they are wise. They have more fruitful relationships and lasting bond. I am learning.” – Rhoda Abiola

    “Sisterhood is that space where I can be vulnerable without fear or shame. When we come together, there are no judgments. My friends are my safe space – they are my sisters. I went through a hoe phase because I was so confused about many things. My two close friends didn’t judge me. It was easy to come out of that phase and fix myself because these amazing women didn’t look at me like a failure. They were the shoulders I needed at a desperate hour. I won’t trade this sisterhood for anything!” – Chinasa Eze

    Women, do you have any amazing stories about sisterhood? Share with us.

  • FAQ: What can I get my man for Valentine’s Day?

    As February 14 draws nearer, women complain it is hard to figure out what to get a man on a special day like Valentine’s.

    Well, we have your answer!

    Check out the list of cool and not-so-expensive options for men:

    Designer sunglasses (invest in a good pair).

    Special mug set (an exquisite mug he can leave on his office desk).

    Portable espresso machine (If he loves coffee, yes!).

    Leather wallet (you can never go wrong with this. His money and his ATM cards need a home).

    Laptop bag (Get a good quality one. He takes his laptop almost everywhere, right?).

    Cologne and men’s products (spoil him with men’s skincare and watch him glow). 

    Food delivery (spoil him with a platter on D-day. Yum!).

    Wireless Bluetooth portable speaker (an essential and thoughtful gift).

    Leather passport case (Aha! Smart gift).

    Airpods (something he can use everyday, very useful).

    Whiskey/Cognac (invest in a premium bottle).

    Expensive brand of coffee (If he is a coffee lover, he’ll smile).

    A phone (if you can upgrade what he already has, why not?).

    Beard grooming kit (if he has beards, definitely!).

    Sneakers (you can never go wrong with a pair).

    Will Smith’s book (WILL would be such a great gift!).

    We hope this helps!

    Go ahead and spoil a good man in your life.

    So, what gift will you be getting your man?

  • FEB. 14: What do women want for Valentine’s Day?

    What are your plans for the big Love Day? Are you expecting any grand event?

    Five women share their expectations for Valentine’s Day:

    “I would like a lovely dinner after work. I would also like to receive bank alert. Afterwards, I would like to be left alone to sleep in a hotel for the rest of the week.” – Arin Davies, banker.

    “I want an engagement ring. That’s what I want. I’m 32 and I want to move to the next level of my life as a woman. I dated someone for three years and he broke my heart. I’m seeing this guy but it’s not a serious relationship. I can’t think of anything I want more than to find a man ready to settle down and get engaged.” – Blessing, stylist.

    “I will like a trip to Seychelles or Maldives or Zanzibar. A nice Valentine get-away, sipping Champagne and having mind-blowing sex. Those are my wishes.” – Ndidi Ugwoke, copywriter.

    “I would love to receive flowers and gift – a wristwatch and a perfume delivered to my office. The idea that my colleagues can see that I am loved would make me feel really special.” – Pelumi Oyerinde, customer care.

    “I’m a new mother and I’ve been married for four years, I have never been treated like a princess. I would like a full day at a spa. I would like a full day of doing nothing. Let someone else stay up at night while I grab some sleep. That’s all I want. Oh! And some chocolates. I love chocolates!” – Tricia Udom, digital marketer.

    PS: Readers, share your expectations for Valentine’s Day.

  • What’s the best relationship advice you’ve ever received?

    One thing I find most singles struggling with is the signals they get from people they are dating or have an interest in. We’ve all been there before.

    Here is a common scenario:

    Guy meets girl. Guy initiates conversation. They go out on a few dates and girl starts to ask “what are we doing?” “are we dating?” “are we now a couple?” Guy says “yes, of course we are!”

    But, a few days or weeks later, he starts to pull away. He acts like he’s no longer interested and its so hard to get him on the phone to chat for those long hours like you used to. Dates are now few and far in-between and girl begins to wonder what happened.

    A good friend of mine once told me, “If a person is into you, they’ll move heaven and earth to see you.” And that’s what I’d like to share with single ladies and guys out there. Do not waste your time on a partner who does not recognize your worth. The moment you realize your worth, you shift your energy to attract new people who respect your worth. It starts with you first.

    I hope this resonates with you and that you value yourself more whether single, dating, or married.

    Share with me… what’s the best relationship advice you ever received?

  • 20 things to do at home during the coronavirus lockdown

    Here are many ways to pass the time while inside your home

    The Federal Government of Nigeria has put some of the major cities on shutdown and have instructed everyone to stay in there homes due to the coronavirus outbreak.

    Love and Intimacy during Corona


    This means it’ll take a while for normalcy to be restored.
    Of course, people will be keen to keep busy during this difficult time and there are many things you can do to have fun, without leaving the house.

    It’s a good time to get creative, take up a new hobby, or do all those jobs you haven’t had the time for.

    However, Here are 20 ways to keep busy and we’d love to hear your suggestions in the comments below.

    1. Do jigsaws
    2. Do DIY
    3. Play chess/monopoly or scrabble
    4. Learn an instrument
    5. Take up painting
    6. Read books
    7. Have a movie night complete with popcorn
    8. Make a list of all the things you want to do when this is over
    9. Learn a new language using YouTube or an audio guide
    10. Play FIFA or other games on the Xbox/PlayStation
    11. Have a virtual party with your friends online
    12. Phone elderly relatives who may be feeling lonely
    13. Take a long bath and listen to an audio book
    14. Make pizzas from scratch
    15. Recreate your favourite restaurant dishes at home
    16. Do origami
    17. Take up knitting
    18. Listen to podcasts or start your own
    19. Watch a classic musical and sing along
    20. Try out some new social media accounts and share what you’re up to each day

  • Did You Make A New Friend This Year?

    It’s already October lovelies!

    A few days ago, as we crossed into the last quarter of the year 2019, I began to reflect on the goals I set for myself at the beginning of the year. One of those goals was to make good connections with people, both business and personal, that would have a positive impact on my life.

    Relationships are important. At different stages of my professional journey, people have been instrumental in helping me achieve success or bring life to my dreams. In my personal endeavors, I wouldn’t have come this far without the support of my husband, close family and friends who have supported me every step of the way.

    So, as I reflect on the year 2019, I’m very grateful for the new connections I’ve made with people who have helped make my life more beautiful.

    Tell me about your experience. Did you make a new friend this year?

  • Throwback Thursday: How Did Your Husband Propose To You?

    Hey SL Fabz,

    I’m in the mood for reading some romantic stories from you today and I hope you share yours with me.

    I know I have a number of engaged and married readers here, so let’s hear from you. How did your husband/fiance propose to you?

    I still remember mine very clearly. It was my birthday and my husband organised a surprise birthday party for me. That’s where he popped the question. It was so memorable and romantic.

    Let’s hear from you. How and where did your husband/fiance propose to you?

     

    Photo Credit: Make Me Fabulous TV Show

  • 5 Signs You Should Go On A Second Date

    The first date is always a significant measure of whether an attraction would lead to a relationship or not. It might be awkward at first, but as two people settle into the date and begin chatting, you begin to notice things about the other person that determines whether you want to go on a second date with him or her again.

    Here are 5 signs to make you know whether a first date would lead to a second one:

    1. When they go the whole date with our touching their phone: In this age of smartphones and social media, you find that most people would rather spend time on their phones while on a date than the person in front of them. If you find that your date is very distracted and prefers phone chatting to actually talking with you, this might be a good sign that the person is not really interested in you.
    2. He/she shows signs of respect: Did the person show up 30minutes late? Did he open the doors for you like a gentleman? Did he/she treat the waiter respectfully? The way and manner your date does some of these are signs of the kind of treatment you are going to receive if you do decide to progress into a relationship. Watch out for these signs.
    3. How engaging is the conversation?: You don’t really have to talk about your deepest secrets on a first date, but there has to be a good flow to the conversation. When you talk about yourself, is your date asking questions and engaging you? Or is he/she just smiling and nodding? If you have a good flow and the person has a genuine interest in you, there’s a good chance it might lead to a second date.
    4. You actually enjoy yourself: One of the first signs that you should go on a second date is that you really enjoy the first one. Don’t focus on whether your friend thinks the other person is good for you instead, pay attention to how you feel when you’re with them. If you enjoy yourself, it’s a good sign that you’ll enjoy the second date, as well.
    5. You have a lot in common: Every successful couple will have at least one or two things in common. To determine whether you should take on a second date, talk about your interests and find out if they align. Your date may not have EVERYTHING in common with you, but should at least have enough for you both to have a good balance in the relationship.

  • Stephanie’s Poll: Should A Lady Ask A Man On A Date?

    Hi SL Fabz,

    I’d like to read your honest opinion on this question.

    If a lady really likes a guy and knows he is single, should she go ahead and ask him out on a date? Let’s also imagine that she knows he likes her but might be constrained by some factors unknown to her. Is it proper for a lady to make the first move? Do you think there will be positive or negative consequences if she does so?

    Please share your thoughts in the comments section…