Talk To Steph: I don’t trust her

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A male reader, let’s call him Mr S, wants some advice on this situation.

I have been in a relationship for about 3 years now, yet I just don’t understand why my girl can’t keep to me. She makes me feel I don’t trust her when I cautioned her about undue attention she gives to her colleague. She calls and receives calls from him anytime including midnight, quite early in the morning and they chat all day via text messages. My phone is open for her to gain access but she locks hers with secret PINs. I discovered she has a third phone just some few days back and I do not have the mobile number of that phone. I’m really eager to marry but I’m so confused because I just can’t leave her and I love her so much. Please what do I do?

SL Fabz, please give him some good advice in dealing with this situation.

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March 5, 2015

Olalekan

Talk to her? No! Leave her? Yes? U ask me why? Coz a leopard can change it skin a hundred time and not it spots. If you talk to her, and she later find out the other guy has nothing good for him, she will promise you change and after taking up ur surname, it may not be with the same guy, bur it’s more likely she will still do the same thing. I as a person can tolerate anything from my lady, bur I can’t tolerate cheating. NO WAY! My own stern advice for you, leave her. It may be painful at first, bur I tell u, someone better than the bitch is out there, not a perfect woman, bur ur perfect wife. Goodluck

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March 5, 2015

Sheytto

I dont think she’s ready 4 marriage nw, bcos even if u force her into marriage she wil definitely b cheating on you but i advice u check urself and make sure u are doing the right thing with her and trying ur best for her.

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March 5, 2015

oye

Rubbish!if u ask me.Trust is the basis of all relationships!She obviously can’t be trusted with these vices you’ve mentioned.However,you need to confront her boldly by letting her know that you are aware of all her pranks.Its either she turns a new leaf or you move on.Ladies that can be trusted still abound out there.Its an illusion that you can’t leave her!Wake up man!!

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March 5, 2015

paa

I do not think she wud appreciate shud it b vise versa or she in ur shoes… Talk her our n if she still adamant be adviced immediately

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March 6, 2015

moji

You shouldn’t be with a partner you do not trust. Trust is one of the qualities needed for a relationship to work.☺
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March 11, 2015

Adedamola Adeleke

I’m 32yrs have this girl i so much love she is 24.Two months after we met i went to 7 different pastorss to seek the lord face through them if she is the one coz i’m this type that believe in what God says b4 i take any step.They all gave go ahed thou 2 of them said we shud stil step a mountain n pray b4 we marry.this is our 2yrs and 6months and we plan to wed but i thought of re seeking d lord face through another 3 pastor.Quess what?they rejected her that we wud seperate at last if i dare go into mrriage with her.I asked if there cud be solution they said ‘NO’! Judging from my own phisical decision she is 90% my choice.pls advice me,Should i marry her or ignore d Negative prophesies ?God bless

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March 13, 2015

ABIMBOLA

love this page. nice work

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