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Your Ex vs A Party

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So, you’re getting ready to attend your friend’s birthday barbecue.

Just as you get into your car, your phone rings. It’s the brother of your ex. Your ex has just had an accident. The brother of the ex, starts begging you to come to the hospital.

The ex is an ex, because they treated you like dirt & left you (male or female, as it applies to you).

After you end the call, you turn on the ignition of your car. Where would you go – hospital or barbecue venue?

And why?

Remember Chioma Nnani, the writer whose book excerpt I published a few days ago? I found this post on her FB wall and thought it would be interesting to share here.

If it were you, where would you go?

Comments

  1. Racheal Laye Edward Avatar
    Racheal Laye Edward

    Sincerely, hospital first then the party follows becos I probably won’t get much fun going to d party first since I’ll av that hospital in my thoughts all thru dat party

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  2. Richard Avatar
    Richard

    Its always hospital first…..
    ex almost always has a place…
    Party later!!!

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  3. ibukun Avatar
    ibukun

    My bible teaches me about forgiveness… What if I was the one in his or her shoes.

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  4. Elizabeth Avatar
    Elizabeth

    Hospital first, no matter what must have led to the breakup no one deserves to get hurt. Get 2 d hospital, know why my presence was requested and if I have to stay I will, if not I’ll get down to the party.

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  5. Meuriel Colley Avatar
    Meuriel Colley

    i will go to the hospital, to show that i still care…

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  6. niemogha joewatha Avatar
    niemogha joewatha

    i will go to the hospital to see my ex cuz i once loved him and the past is the past and also remember to err is human and forgive is divine.

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  7. Agnes Kubeh Avatar
    Agnes Kubeh

    I admire ur work may God continue to bless u Steph.

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  8. Betty Avatar
    Betty

    I am so going to take in a whole lot of barbecue

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  9. hinatu japheth Avatar
    hinatu japheth

    I wil go to d hospital to see aw he s doing n if d condition s dat bad I wil stay dere n forget d party, cos even if I go to d party my mind wil nt b at peace.

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  10. Scholastica esq. Avatar
    Scholastica esq.

    i will drive to the hospital first certainly not be
    cause of him but for Gods sake. Steph i admire u alot n the work u re doing for mankind. pls keep it up.

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  11. Richard Lore Avatar
    Richard Lore

    hospital first. because may be this person it was his last day on earth. he could have been seeking for forgiven so that he can rest in peace.

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  12. Jimmy Avatar
    Jimmy

    Definitely the hospital first. And this is because I value people more than events. And I esteem relationship more than selfish gains or ego. We have broken up, but we are still humans.

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